We imagine our deepest needs being met in the intimacy of being with a special young man or woman.
We all want our hearts to soar for someone or something. Many of us date because we’re trying to fill those needs in love.
Just because we are waiting to date does not mean we are sitting around and waiting.
The little girl is bewildered to find herself in an environment where she is encouraged to speak Arabic, where the cross she wears around her neck is removed and scathing things are said about her own culture.He capitalizes on our desires and convinces us we must “love” in order to truly live, that all the highest pleasures and fullest experiences are found in a relationship with a boyfriend or girlfriend (or husband or wife).He brews heartbreak for breakfast, and sweetens every sexual sin with a beautiful, but poisonous glaze.We cannot date toward marriage when marriage isn’t even on the radar yet.You may be dreaming about marriage already (I was), but is it realistic that the two of you could marry anytime soon? My advice — take it or leave it — is wait until you can reasonably marry him or her in the next eighteen months. The important part is that you , if God made it clear this was his will and his timing for you.